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What should you look for in a guy? (part 1)

by Jeremy Walden

Since you are here, you are probably looking for a Christian man. GREAT! As you have probably discovered, not all men who call themselves Christian act like it. So how do you sift through the “label” and find the real man?

One quick way to discover the character of a man is to … see how he relates to others. The Apostle Paul gave this advice to Timothy, “Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity” (1 Tim. 5:1-2). Dating is about becoming a good judge of character. Here are a few questions to get you thinking:

·Does he encourage and respect other men?

·How does he treat other women?

·How did he treat his past girlfriends?

·How does he treat his family?

How a man relates to others is essential for you to know! Ultimately, it will let you know how he is going to treat you. Remember, it is common for guys to turn on the charm when they are dating (women often do this as well). They will tell you flattering things to make you feel good. But after a while charm fades. You will then be left with the guy’s character. Seek character!

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